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Spicy Maple Glazed Nuts

April 27, 2021 by Mary 8 Comments


Spicy Maple Glazed Nuts are not too sweet, not too spicy, on a blue rimmed plate.
Total delish Spicy Maple Glazed Nuts

These Spicy Maple Glazed Nuts are super simple to make and super delicious, particularly with a cocktail or glass of wine at the end of the day. Not too sweet, not too spicy, they hit the right spot!

And now that FINALLY my kitchen is finished (yay, yay, yay!) and slowly we are all getting vaccinated, we can start getting together again and enjoying that cocktail with friends and family.

I do enjoy nuts at any time of the day. I carry some with me at all times in my purse, so that if I get that low blood sugar feeling, that hangry feeling (that’s hungry and angry) and need something to eat while on the go, I am set. 

Recently, I had listened to a synopsis of a book and learned that if you ate only six cashews a day, that would provide your cells with extra cilia (hairs) to be able to ward off infection better. So I have been doing just that. Eating six (well maybe seven or eight, but no more) cashews a day. Count them out ahead of time and then close the container and put it away.

My Nutty Story…

Some years ago, way before Mary’s Secret Ingredients, way back when we lived in Summit, NJ, after much trial and error, I had created three roasted nut recipes and had even designed the packaging for them using a terrific illustration of me on the front, calling them “MARY’s NUTS – as in Mary is nuts and these were her nuts! I had Sweet Walnuts (great for salads), Spicy Almonds, and Sweet and Spicy Pecans. 

However, after perfecting the recipes, I never had the time to take them to market. But I still have those recipes and I should dig them up for you!

This Spicy Maple Glazed Nuts recipe makes a lot – 6 cups of nuts – but believe me, you will find them gone within the 3 week time period that they stay fresh. And also, they are lovely to share, a well appreciated gift. Put them in a clear glass Mason jar, adorned with a pretty bow on top and you will be invited back for sure.

So make this perfect and different accompaniment now. Make with LOVE and enjoy!

SPICY MAPLE GLAZED NUTS – makes 6 cups

1/4 c maple syrup
2 Tbs. EVOO
2 Tbs. minced fresh rosemary
3/4 tsp. ground cayenne pepper
3/4 tsp. Dulce pimentón de la Vera (smoked Spanish Paprika)
1 tsp. French Grey salt, finely ground
6 cups unsalted mixed raw nuts (11/2 cups each of  pecans, walnuts, 
whole blanched almonds, whole cashews)

The Method

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Line a baking rimmed baking sheet with parchment paper.

Stir together everything but the nuts in a large bowl. Add all the nuts and stir well to completely coat each nut with the glaze. Turn out onto the prepared baking sheet, spreading out all the nuts and scraping the bowl, using all the glaze.

Roast in the oven, stirring and flipping the nuts over after 10 minutes. Roast for 9 – 10 minutes more, being careful not to let the pecans burn. 

Remove from the oven and let cool on the baking sheet so they will crisp up.

When completely cooled, store in an airtight container. A tin lined with wax paper works well or a mason jar with a tight fitting lid. Properly stored nuts will keep for 3 weeks.

Spicy Maple Glazed Nuts are not too sweet, not too spicy, in a wax paper lined tin.
These Spicy Maple Glazed Nuts keep well in a wax paper lined tin.

Filed Under: Appetizers, Cocktails Tagged With: cocktail nuts, roasted nuts, sweet and spicy nuts

Lovely Citrusy Shrimp

February 21, 2021 by Mary 8 Comments


Lovely Citrusy Shrimp with Bulgar and Haricot Vert

Crisp, cool, clean. I think that is what we need right now. And that is what you have in a dish like this Lovely Citrusy Shrimp. I certainly needed this with all of the construction going on in my apartment. I am almost losing it, as it is all taking way too long: One, because of my slow contractor who tends to have to do things two or three times because of poor planning or just not honoring my request to begin with and two: because of Covid and a slow delivery of appliances. But really, honestly, that is not what has slowed things down. At any rate, this dish I made up of Lovely Citrusy Shrimp is A. Maz. Ing. If I may say so.

I am ever so very grateful that I have the upstate house to escape to from all of the awful dust in the city apartment. When I walk into that country house front door now, it is accompanied by audible sighing and an enormous sense of relief, thanking God that I can walk into my other home that is clean, put together and most importantly, a place where I can cook! And so I cook for the next week, planning the dishes around appropriate meals for lunch and dinner that would warm up well.

Cara Cara Oranges

Cara Cara oranges are great because they are so, so  juicy, only slightly sweet and just a little bit acidic – all just the right amount – but they are only available in the winter. So please take advantage of them now. And because the segments are the most beautiful color, the designer in me LOVES to use them. Talk about brightening up a dish!

And the small amount of black beans – well they add a certain creaminess, pulling the dish all together.

So you’ve got the heat from the jalapeños, the acid and slight sweetness from the oranges and tomatoes, beans connecting everything and the leeks to add color and interest. This really works!!

This meal comes together so quickly, if you take the time to chop everything beforehand and get the waters boiling for the bulgar and the beans.

The ingredients!
Orange peeled
Sliced and chunked

Cooking your shrimp

Never, ever, overcook the shrimp. Then you just have rubbery nonsense with no flavor. It usually takes about 2 minutes sauteing on one side. It will turn pink on that side and then likely 1-2 minutes on the other side.

Shrimp cooking on the first side..
And on the second side
Ready to serve!

Here you go!

LOVELY CITRUSY SHRIMP – serves 2

2 Tbs. olive oil – plus more to drizzle on finished dish
2 leeks, white and light green parts only, cut in half lengthwise, all sand washed out and sliced ¼” thick
5 slices of jalapeños, – sliced on a mandoline, with seeds and membranes
12 large shrimp, peeled and deveined with the tails left on
Heaping ⅓ cup chopped fresh tomatoes
3 Tbs. dry Vermouth
2 Tbs. canned black beans, rinsed and drained
1 Cara Cara orange, peeled with a knife, sliced, then cut into chunks
½ cup chopped fresh basil

Wash, chop and prepare all your ingredients to be ready to throw into the skillet as this dish comes together so fast, you must be prepared.

Wash (2 -3 times), drain, and pat dry your shrimp, laying them out on paper towels. Salt and pepper one side.

Warm the olive oil in a large skillet on medium heat, add leeks and jalapeno and saute for about 5 minutes, allowing them to soften and get fragrant and lightly brown, stirring frequently. Then push the leeks and jalapeno off to the sides of the pan.

Raise the heat to medium-high and add the shrimp in one layer, and cook for 2-3 minutes until they are turning pink on one side. At the 1.5 minute mark, add the vermouth and let it sizzle for 30 seconds, then add the tomatoes while you are turning the shrimp. Add the black beans and the oranges to warm them as the shrimp should only cook on the other side for 1-2 minutes.

Then add the chopped basil, a good drizzle of olive oil, lots of LOVE and serve!

I served this with bulgur and haricot vert – total deliciousness!!

Filed Under: Dinner, Fish, Lunch Tagged With: Citrusy shrimp, easy fish recipes, easy shrimp recipes, shrimp recipes

Sicilian Orange Cake with Dark Chocolate Glaze

December 24, 2020 by Mary 10 Comments

I had a little trouble getting this cake out of the pan…

This Italian cake is not too sweet but super moist so you can make this a day ahead and eat it for several days without losing anything. Because of this, I thought this Sicilian Orange Cake with Dark Chocolate Glaze is a great cake to have around during the holidays. It is terrific for dessert as well as for breakfast with a cup a coffee. (a true Italian-style breakfast) You probably already have all the ingredients on hand so give this a go! Santa will most likely enjoy it too.

Always good to share…

I brought this cake to a dinner at my good friends’ Margaret and Wayne’s house last week. They are in my “pod” so all is good and safe. We each had two pieces that night and then I left them with a very large piece. Margaret texted me that she was having a 1″ piece every day. I think she’s had her last piece today and enjoyed it so much.

This cake recipe was originally in Food and Wine magazine, but of course I changed it and added the dark chocolate glaze. I LOVE orange and chocolate!

Make it with LOVE. And have a very Happy and Merry Christmas!

SICILIAN ORANGE CAKE with DARK CHOCOLATE GLAZE – serves 10

2 cups all-purpose flour, plus more for pan
2 tablespoons grated orange zest
1 1/4 cups fresh orange juice (from 3 oranges)
1 1/2 Tbs. baking powder
1 1/2 cups granulated sugar
1/2 cup Canola oil
3 large or 4 small eggs
Butter for greasing the pan
4 oz. 70% dark Ghirardelli Chocolate
½ tsp. unsalted butter
½ tsp. Canola oil


Preheat oven to 350°F. Stir together flour, orange zest, and baking powder in a medium bowl. Set aside.

Beat sugar, vegetable oil, and eggs with an electric mixer on high speed until almost white, about 1 minute and 30 seconds. Add orange juice; beat on low speed until combined, about 20 seconds. With the mixer running on low speed, gradually add flour mixture. Beat until just combined, about 1 minute (do not overmix).

Transfer batter to a greased (with butter or Crisco) and floured 9-inch tube or Bundt pan. Bake in a preheated oven until a wooden pick inserted in center comes out clean, 40 to 45 minutes. Let cool in pan 10 minutes. Invert cake onto a wire rack; let cool completely, about 1 hour.

Turn cake right side up on a plate. Melt the chocolate with the butter and oil in a microwave, 1 minute at a time on 50% power, stirring after each heating, to further melt the chocolate. This should take 2 – 3 minutes. Do not overheat as that will burn the chocolate.

Drizzle the glaze all over the top and let it drip down the sides. Enjoy!!

Soooo good for breakfast!

Filed Under: Breakfast, Brunch, Desserts, Tea time Tagged With: Ghirardelli chocolate, Orange cake, Sicilian dessert

Pork Chops with Ginger Blackberry Sauce

December 16, 2020 by Mary 4 Comments

Pork Chops With Ginger Blackberry Sauce, finished on a white plate with a side of Broccoli Rabe.

My lead construction guy told me, with a wry smile, that this would be my “last supper” in my kitchen. You see, I am completely renovating my kitchen in the city apartment and this recipe that I threw together of Pork Chops with Ginger Blackberry Sauce was scrumptious and special and my last meal from my old kitchen. It was fun to make up, with just the things I had around and so very delicious to boot! It comes together so quickly. I know you will love the sweet, savory, spicy and umami flavors all melded as one.

Quite frankly, I really hate cooking for one. I do not like being alone but what am I to do? I still love cooking and eating, and really, they become the highlights of my day, along with a little wine (maybe sometimes too much but who cares) and that is what I look forward to every day. Additionally, my late husband Steve, never really liked fruit with meat. And I have been on this sweet and savory combo kick, which I can now explore to my heart’s desire.

My mission is to combine new, unusual flavors. I’m tired of the typical mingling of ingredients. I want to break through and create something fresh and exciting! So I really had a go of it with this Pork Chops with Ginger Blackberry Sauce recipe. But you know what, I think Steve would have liked this too!

NOW THE BACKSTORY ON MY KITCHEN…

All of my appliances were breaking and my cabinets were builder’s grade (equals really shitty quality) from when we bought this condo 13 years ago and I just couldn’t bear putting new appliances in between chipped cabinets, so I decided on a complete renovation. I started musing with this idea in the summer of 2019, after happening upon a new Italian kitchen store in my neighborhood. I fell in love with these cabinets that looked like concrete and started working on the design, getting construction and appliance estimates and moving forward. I actually would have loved to do slick, shiny bright red cabinets but I knew that those really wouldn’t go with the rest of the apartment. 

Because my kitchen is wide open to the dining room and the living room which are filled with an eclectic mix of French, English and American antiques along with some traditional and modern items, I needed to make the kitchen work with all of these, yet still do something smashing. Otherwise, why was I doing it, was my thinking.

Then I remembered, my very first designer/employee at my brand design agency many, many years ago was Jeanne, and she had left the communication design field to become a kitchen designer. I should contact her!

So I rang her up and she changed everything – all for the best! She gently guided me off of the concrete and into doing real wood – gorgeous walnut, flat modern panels with some beautiful Italian polished nickel handles and a concrete looking floor. We picked a stunning piece of granite for the counter with taupe, black and some beautiful blue in it. White quartz for the windowsill and some amazing appliances including my favorite – a slim wine refrigerator that is six inches wide and holds seven bottles!

SUPER MESSY IN AN APARTMENT

My renovation is in full swing now and my cabinets arrived yesterday along with Jeanne, to open and check some of them. The old kitchen is completely out and donated to Angie’s House on Long Island. They help medically frail children have the best quality of life possible. I was so happy to find them as I definitely did not want to contribute any more to landfills. It is very trying managing the space in an apartment during a complete redo – nothing like in a house.

So I cooked up a storm my last three days in my old kitchen and this recipe of Pork Chops with Ginger Blackberry Sauce was clearly my favorite. A “last supper” to remember.

I trust you will LOVE this as much as I did. This is a festive dish and easy to do during the busy holiday season. Be sure to make with LOVE. Here is the recipe:

Pork Chops with Ginger Blackberry Sauce – serves 2

2 pork chops
2 Tbs. olive oil
1 small red onion, quartered and sliced in ¼” slices
4 anchovies
5 chunks of Stem Ginger in syrup, chopped (comes in a small glass jar)
3 Tbs. syrup from the Stem Ginger 
1 cup fresh blackberries
Fine Sea Salt
Fresh ground pepper
Chinese Five Spice
Fresh mint leaves for garnish (optional)

The process

Take the pork chops out of the fridge for 30 – 60 minutes before cooking. Pat dry and season each side with salt, pepper and a liberal amount of Chinese Five Spice. 

Warm the olive oil over medium-low heat and add the onion and anchovies. Saute for 5 -7 stirring frequently.

Pork Chops With Ginger Blackberry Sauce, Seasoned and Cooking in a pan.

Push the onion mixture to the sides of the pan, raise the heat to medium, medium-high and add the chops in the center, making sure the meat is hitting the pan, not on top of the onions and add the blackberries, ginger and ginger syrup. Toss the onion/blackberry mixture on the sides while the chops are browning for 4 – 5 minutes. 

Pork Chops With Ginger Blackberry Sauce, Cooking in a pan.

Turn the chops and saute for another 4 – 5 minutes, until the pork is done by pressing the meat with your thumb. It should feel sturdy but not super hard, or be at 140 degrees with an instant read meat thermometer inserted into the thickest part of the chop. The temperature will increase while the meat is resting.

Remove the chops to a warm platter or board. Continue cooking the blackberry sauce for 5 more minutes, stirring until the berries break down, getting juicy and add in the collected meat juices at the end.

Pour the sauce in a line down the middle of the chops and serve, garnished with mint leaves if desired.

Filed Under: Dinner, Meat Tagged With: blackberries, Dinner, ginger, pork chops, pork chops with ginger blackberry sauce

Thanksgiving 2020

November 16, 2020 by Mary 4 Comments

Thanksgiving is around the corner and what are we to do with the pandemic and the growing rise of Coronavirus cases? We’re not supposed to get together with anyone outside of our “pod”. I get that.  But. It. Is. So. Hard. 

I really get it. As I have been alone for the majority of this time and missing my late husband Steve so very very much.

Perhaps your “pod” is larger than most, due to the sheer size of your family? I know that is true with my brother in St. Louis. He has seven children, all married and 15 grandchildren. They are all very careful. And they see each other now. They did not, back in March, April and May.

One of my other brothers, Steve, and his wife Trish, came to live with me for a couple of weeks. They had no place to go! And of course, I was delighted. They had sold one house and their new condo isn’t yet finished being built. They were living in their other house in Vermont but if they passed the 6 month mark there, they would have had to pay a full year of income taxes in Vermont and Connecticut! (Bet Trump never had to do that.)

So they came to me in upstate NY and honestly, we all had a blast. You see, we used to travel together a lot in our younger days, pre-children. And of course, I sort of grew up with him – we are 8 years apart and he is older – but we certainly grew up in the same household. So we do things the same way in terms of kitchen stuff and cleaning up. At one point, when I woke up in the morning, I honestly thought I was at my parent’s house and all was calm and stuff was happening as they had been up, comfortably getting their own breakfasts, the wafting smell of fresh delicious coffee was coming upstairs. I was all smiles. All good. In this household.

Two All-Clad pots in the sunlight.
Here are two of my gorgeous new pots!

So exciting to have new pots!

As a thank you and early birthday present, (my birthday is on Thanksgiving Day this year), my brother and sister-in-law sent me three All-Clad pots, all stainless steel, inside and out, almost too pretty to use. It’s so exciting to get new pots and these are gorgeous!!

Secrets for a Great Thanksgiving You Will LOVE cookbook.
My Thanksgiving Cookbook!

A cookbook with recipes and a process timeline!

Because it is Thanksgiving soon, I wanted to remind everyone about my handy cookbook of all of my big feast recipes along with a hassle-free planning schedule to get everything done with ease and put a magnificent meal on the table, stress free.

You can get it on Amazon here – and I am donating all of the proceeds of the sales to Meals on Wheels to feed the less fortunate.

So pick up a copy and enjoy. I have a whole slew of folks who make my stuffing recipe every year. Yes, it is that good. 

Additionally, l know my Momofuku’s Roasted Brussels Sprouts with Fish Sauce Vinaigrette recipe in the cookbook menu is a little unique and not for the faint of heart, bursting with umami. This year I am switching up that side recipe to be Green Beans with a Warm Raisin Caper dressing. Still unique, but a little tamer.

It’s a Martha Stewart recipe and usually I am not a big fan of hers but this sounds good and I think, will be a nice contrast to the richness of the rest of the meal.

So pick up a book and give it a go. And please leave a review to help others find it easily. 

And remember to make everything with LOVE. Enjoy!

Have the BEST Thanksgiving ever!! It is sure to be memorable in this climate.

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Braised Short Ribs – savory and a little sweet!

November 6, 2020 by Mary 7 Comments

Finished Braised Short Ribs - savory and a little sweet! garnished with parsley on a white platter.
Finished Braised Short Ribs – savory and a little sweet!

I love this time of year – the beautiful fall colors, the weather getting crisper and cooler, sweater-time, bundling up in front of a fire time. And with Braised Short Ribs simmering in the oven, there is no better time, right? Short Ribs have always been a favorite of mine but for my late husband Steve, not so much. He never liked the soft gristle that comes with them. Perhaps too jelly-like and sometimes a lot of work to separate them from the meat. So therefore, I didn’t make them often and never had a chance to perfect my recipe…

A wonderful time of the year…

But my oldest son and I love them! So last Saturday, on a beautiful, weather-perfect day, after apple picking with his wife and my grandson and six of their friends, full of hot apple cider, sugar doughnuts, streusel sticks and of course, apples, we came home and I whipped up this recipe, which I think is my damn near-perfect recipe of Braised Short Ribs – savory and a little sweet!

Because this week has been such a tortuous one with the election results still unresolved at this moment, I thought you all might enjoy and need a little comfort food. These Braised Short Ribs fit the bill exactly!

I do hope you’ll try this and let me know what you think.

Only the best ingredients

Braised Short Ribs ingredients on a wooden cutting board.

Remember, it is all about the ingredients and it is best to use local grass-fed beef and organic vegetables, along with a decent quality dry red wine. My brother, Steve, who is a sommelier and has a wine and food pairing blog you should visit, says to never cook with something that you wouldn’t drink. Remember that, as I have found it to be a great piece of advice. It also means you can drink a little good wine while you cook!

So in this recipe, I used a good quality Cabernet Sauvignon. The same theory goes for the broth or beef stock. Homemade is the best, then move on to store bought, only organic, with real ingredients.

Make ahead!

Ideally, make this the day before you want to serve it for two good reasons: one, it is so much easier to get rid of all the fat as it will collagulate on top and two, the flavors will intensify and develop into total indescribable yumminess.

Braised Short Ribs – serves 4 – 6

5 lbs. beef short ribs, bone on
Kosher salt
Freshly ground black pepper (I like a coarse grind)
1 Tbs. vegetable oil
1 large onion chopped or 2 small
2 carrots, peeled or scrubbed and chopped
2 celery ribs, chopped
4 large whole garlic cloves, lightly crushed
2 Tbs. light brown sugar
1 Tbs. Worcestershire sauce
2  Tbs. Confit de Figues – a French fig jam usually served with cheeses
Juice from ½ lemon
2 fresh (or dried) bay leaves
3/4 cup Madeira
11/2 cup dry red wine
1 – 2 cups beef broth
Chopped parsley for garnish

Heat the oven to 250 degrees. Season the short ribs liberally with salt and pepper. Heat a large heavy Dutch oven over medium high heat with the oil. Add the short ribs (add them in batches, if necessary) and brown on all sides. Transfer the ribs to a plate as they finish browning. Pour off all but 1 tablespoon fat.

Add the onion, carrot, celery, and garlic to the pot, reduce the heat to medium, and cook until the vegetables are soft and all the browned bits in the base of the pot have been loosened. Put the short ribs (and any juices that have collected on the plate) back in the pot.

Braised Short Ribs, browned, in a Le Creuset pot.

Add the light brown sugar, Worcestershire sauce, Confit de Figues, lemon juice and bay leaves. Pour in the Madeira and red wine. Add enough beef broth to just cover the ribs. Bring the liquid to a boil, then cover the pot and transfer to the oven.

Braise the short ribs until they are very tender when pierced with a fork, about 3 hours (longer if the short ribs are big). Using a slotted spoon, transfer the shortribs to a plate. Let the cooking liquid settle; spoon off as much fat as possible (ideally, you’d do this over the course of two days and would, at this point, put the liquid in the fridge overnight and peel off the layer of fat in the morning).

Set the pot on the stove over medium high heat. Bring the cooking liquid to a boil and reduce to a syrupy consistency.

Lay a short rib or two in each of 4 wide shallow bowls. Spoon over a little sauce and garnish with chopped fresh parsley. Serve with boiled potatoes dressed with parsley butter and LOVE.

ENJOY!!


Filed Under: Dinner, Meat

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